Essence: depth, mystery and true identity

Came to believe: people experience a painful loss of their original connection, leaving them feeling abandoned

Strategy: of longing for the ideal partner or circumstance 

Focus of attention: what is missing

Strengths: sensitive, creative orientation, being attuned to feelings, capacity to empathize with suffering, passionate, emotional depth and authenticity

Challenges: being overly dramatic, moody, self-absorbed, unsatisfied with responses and emotionally intense

Avoids: feeling rejected

Defense: introjection, the unconscious adoption of the ideas or attitudes of others

Path back to balance: emotional balance by valuing the ordinary